Most of us have joked about a celebrity “flirting” through a lyric or post — but for people with erotomania, it’s not a joke. It’s a rare delusional disorder where someone genuinely believes a public figure or person of higher status is secretly in love with them, even without any real interaction.
People with erotomania might read hidden messages in TV interviews, social media posts, or even license plates. Their brains fill in the blanks to confirm the fantasy. In some cases, it can lead to stalking or repeated attempts to contact the person they think loves them — no matter how many times they’re shut down.
The condition can happen on its own or alongside mental health issues like schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. It’s also been linked to low self-esteem, isolation, or trauma. Treatment often involves therapy and medication, and with the right support, people can improve over time.
Erotomania has also been used to discredit women. When Anita Hill accused a powerful man of harassment, an “expert” claimed she had erotomania — trying to paint her as delusional instead of brave. That’s not a diagnosis, that’s gaslighting.
Mental illness isn’t a punchline or a way to silence people. Erotomania is serious, but treatable. And like with all mental health struggles, what people need most is support — not judgment.
Source: The Swaddle
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